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Want to Learn How to Attract Men You Want
Instead of Men You Don't Want?
If you want to learn how to attract men that make you
happy, feel loved, and appreciated - and you haven't been
having much luck, then you've come to the right place!
What do men like? What do men want in a woman? What are men really looking for?
We are not men so how can we naturally think like them?
Read on....
3 Flirting Tips - Three Things That Will Drive Men Crazy!
Men love a girl who knows how to flirt. By flirting I mean
making them want you and see you as something that
they need to have in their life.
There is subtle flirting and there is not so subtle flirting
and while you think they would have different impacts,
they pretty much can produce the same desired result.
He will notice you and want you.
Here are 3 things that will drive him wild.
1. Wear sexy clothes that flatter you.
Show off what you got. If you have good legs then show those off. If you have a chest that would make most girls jealous then show it off! As long as you are comfortable with it you can accentuate your features for him to notice.
Think about passing a guy in everyday plain old sweats and a very loose t-shirt and then passing him in a tighter shirt and some butt accentuating jeans and guess which one you`ll get the reaction you want from?
Guys also like to see some skin because it makes them think about other parts that they are not seeing so stay comfortable but sexy and strut your stuff past him every chance you get.
2. Use lots of physical contact
Remember we are talking about flirting here and not outright foreplay so keep this to a flirty kind of feel.
When you touch him it will send shivers down his spine just like it does for you. You can touch his hand just a second longer when getting something from him or put your hand on his arm when you are 'trying' to sneak past him. When you see a moment to 'accidentally' touch him, take it!
3. Be aware of your body language.
Let him know you are interested in him with your body language. Eye contact is huge in letting someone know you are into them. If you maintain eye contact for just a second too long it gives a different energy than a normal look or the way too long glare that means hateful eye contact. Use it at the right time and he'll feel it to his bones.
Always hold your body confidently around him to portray your confidence in what you want. Confidence is a huge turn on.
Use your smile to let him know that you are thinking about him in more ways than he may know. A cute and sly smile will have him wondering what's going on in your head while knowing that you are into him.
Keep your body language open to him to allow him to see that you are interested in him and that he has a shot with you. This means not crossing your arms when talking to him or turning your head away from him.
Your body language can tell him what he wants to know and the best part about it is that it is instinctual in us and comes natural when we are flirting. It also give him those feelings of being wanted.
Yeah But...Do I Seem Like a Girl That Guys Would Like to Date?
I saw this question the other day and I know how it feels to think
like this. I remember wondering if guys liked me and how I could
change myself to make them like me more.
If you are asking yourself, or others, this question then you may
be a little insecure about your man attracting abilities or even in
your self esteem. I know I was.
Let's try this experiment together that got me started in moving past my
insecurities and instead viewing myself for the amazing woman I am.
Go and look in the mirror and really look at yourself. Don't just focus on the annoying part you always focus on when you look in the mirror but instead really look at yourself the way others would see you.
Instead of focusing on your 'physical imperfections' look past those right now and see all the great things about you that make you who you are. Do you have an amazing smile or sexy eyes? Maybe you have cute dimples or awesome legs. See yourself as a whole package and not just as a thigh or arm or stomach.
Do you understand what I'm saying? You are not just the arm or thigh or stomach that you constantly focus on...you are also a couple of legs, a butt, a face, two boobs and everything else that makes up you. Other people do not just see what you look at when you view yourself in a mirror. They see the whole package.
Now keep looking in the mirror and really see your personality. Personality is huge when it comes to the way people see you!
Yes looks are part of the package but so is your personality.
A crappy personality can make even the most attractive person look ugly and a great personality can make the least attractive person beautiful.
Look at the way you talk and they way you laugh. Do you throw your head back when you laugh or do you make a cute face when you are thinking about something serious? That's what other people are seeing in you and that's what makes you unique from every other girl and a great catch for any guy to have.
Anytime you feel down about yourself try going to the mirror and really looking at you and feeling good about who you are and not just the insecure you.
I've always been under the belief that every women is beautiful. I've never seen an ugly women except for when I look in the mirror and critique myself.
It's crazy how we perceive ourselves differently from everyone else but with a little practice we can retrain our brains to see ourselves as we actually are - beautiful.
How Can You Tell If He's Into You - Five Clear Signals
Sometimes it can be difficult to tell if a guy is really into you or
if he just likes you as a friend.
If a guy is really into you, even if he has not told you or your
friends, there will be some obvious sign that you can watch for
to know for sure.
1. He agrees with you, even when you are wrong.
Whether you are saying that the sky is purple or that David Spade is the funniest comic ever he will agree with you if he is really into you. He will not chance arguing with you and will try to keep you happy with him and delighted that he thinks the same.
If you find him disagreeing with you about almost everything you say than he may be trying to make a point about what he thinks about the way you think.
2. Whether you are alone or in a crowd he's only got eyes for you.
Guys who are really into you will be all about you when you are out. He won't break eye contact for the nearest girl walking by and he'll be checking you out while you are together. Eyes are a huge indicator of how someone feels about you and just looking into them should let you know what he's feeling.
3. He really listens to you and tries to respond back with something you like.
Guys that like you want you to know that they are interested in what you have to say. They will laugh at the appropriate times and respond with an appropriate comment. They will be engaged in the conversation instead of just someone you are talking to.
4. He will be attentive and he will make sure you are okay.
Whether he lets you wear his jacket when you are cold or helps you get untangled from some sticky situation he will be there for you and make sure that you are okay even when he doesn't have to.
5. He takes your side on everything.
If you and your girlfriend are arguing about something silly he will always take your side. Give him a choice between your opinion and her opinion and you'll see that he chooses you no matter what. He will put some pretend thought into it but he will know all alone what side he's on.
Who Can Help Me Learn More About How To Attract Men?
Out of all the different people that I've listened to talk about attracting men and becoming every mans dream I have to say these two ladies are the best I've come accross on my journey, besides me of course but I haven't written any books...yet ;)
The first is Mirabelle Summers: Mirabelle is a straight talking
women who makes tons of sense to me and has helped many
women out there.
Check out the reviews that are on the sign up page for her free attract men mini course and you know that you are dealing with someone special.
I like people who don't mince words and tell it like is and she fits the bill. In fact I think she's doing a great thing for women and hope she keeps coming up with new things to share.
Another great lady who is guaranteed to help is Amy
Waterman. She is a professional writer specializing in
attraction, dating, and relationships. She has extensive
experience in helping women find love with her
insightful and powerful secrets into attracting love and making
relationships work. She is the Author of how to be irresistable to
men. She also shoots from the hip and makes a lot of sense.
Either of these girls would be a great resource to learn more
about attracting men, good men, and how they think.
All the best,
Bellaisa
