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Dating - 'How To' Questions Answered.
Many people ask 'How To' questions when it comes
to dating and it's no surprise. Dating is one of the
hardest yet most fun things we go through in life and
it's something everyone in the world shares. Noone
can get to a relationship without some sort of dating first.
So first we have to get the nerve to even talk to someone we have our eyes on. The question I see the most is should I or shouldn't I approach them.
Of course you should! Without question! Why?
Because you'll never know unless you do.
You don't want to have any regrets in this life. There's no room for regrets. Trust me if it doesn't work out and you feel horrified at the moment - that feeling will not last forever. Probably not even more than a day.
Just go into it with some confidence and maybe some good advice about how to approach someone so that you have a chance instead of stopping it dead in it's tracks.
Guys - here's an article - How To Get A Girl Using Only Your Body Language. This is a really good lesson in how to keep your cool and come across as a normal guy that she will want to get to know better. Try it if you don't believe me.
I think the article would apply well to girls as well. It's a standard of not looking like a fool that we all can achieve quite quickly if we're not careful.
Women - do you have a problem finding a normal guy? Do you attract all the crazies and date them just because there doesn't seem to be any normal guys around. Probably. Most girls go through this. There's a key to Attracting Good Men and Repelling The Bad. There's an actual reason that we attract the guys we don't want and repel the guys we do but with a few learned methods we can attract those guys that will treat us good like we should be treated.
Going out on a first date is another impression that you don't want to act or look like a crazy person on. You want to keep your best face forward and be normal. The first few impressions are what's going to make or break the future of any relationship and a little planning and know how will get your far.
I find that guys have a harder time thinking of what to say or talk about on their dates. But if they just asked some really good questions they can keep the conversation going while learning about the girl they are out with. So here are 6 Questions You Should Ask A Girl On The First Date.
If you feel like you don't have enough time to go out and find someone then you may want to consider online dating. There are so many reasons that it can be beneficial to you. I think if you take a look at the sites you will realize that long gone are they days of the creepy stalker dude sitting behind his computer in his robe or the girl that says she's a supermodel but turns out not to be when you meet her. Now you can see their pictures and talk to them online. It's a whole new ball game. Check out some popular dating site reviews to find one that might suit you.
Articles From The Links Above
How to Get a Girl Using Only Your Body Language
Guys are the ones who are known to be visually
stimulated but that rule applies to girls as well. In
fact so much so that you can have a girl wanting to
get to know you before you even say one word to her.
This approach works well if you are a nervous guy around girls because you may use the body language to charm her pants off before you jump into the conversation. That way she’ll over look the fumbles and mishaps that come out of your mouth because the first impression was so good.
So to begin with make sure she catches you looking at her. Give her just a quick glance of you looking at her. Don’t smile or wink or lick your lips. Just try to keep it normal looking.
The perfect glance would be one that portrays how cute you think she is or that she stunned you are with her beauty. Yes, seriously. So try to think how great she looks in your head and it should convey outwards through your look.
After the initial look make sure she sees that you are having fun doing whatever you are doing. You want her to see a happy, charming, and sincere person.
Don’t swagger around trying to look cool or talk five levels above your normal voice as these might have her looking elsewhere. Over doing it equals trying too hard and that comes off as needy. But remember that under doing it comes off as boring and plain. Just be normal, have a good time, and play it cool.
When she sees you having fun with others and them enjoying your company as well she will associate that with you being a nice guy that she wants to be around and get to know.
After about five or ten minutes have gone by from the initial look give her yet another look that lasts a little longer. Again, don’t wink or give her the thumbs up. You just want to let her know you are interested. So when she sees you looking hold the look a little longer. When you look away make it seem like you just broke out of a trance and continue doing what you’re doing.
Do not go overboard with the trance thing but just take a pause to get up from a sitting position or to move from one spot to the other or to continue a conversation you are having. The most important part is the pause. She will recognize it as you thinking about her which will give her the non-visual thumbs up that you’re into her.
Now you are set up to do the smile and possibly the conversation. In another few minutes you can catch her attention and give her a smile. Or you can go over to her and try to start a conversation with her.
You have laid the groundwork to let her know you are a nice and normal guy who is interested in her. The rest is up to her.
Body language is a hugely massive tool to use for picking up a girl and if you use it right she will always have an interest in you. Just make sure you keep the cheesy moves out of the picture for a while no matter how tempting they are.
Attracting Good Men And Repelling The Bad
So answer this for me? Is it not a problem for you to
attract a man into your life BUT it is a problem to
attract a good one?
Or do you not know a good relationship when you
have one and let it go for the bad guy only to realize
what you’ve done when it’s too late?
This is so common that most of you should be sitting there shaking your head yes or rolling your eyes saying “God yes – all the time”.
Well I’m living proof that once you understand what’s going on and get some real information about all this that resonates as the truth to you will start to have the perfect relationship that you are looking for.
An excellent resource for learning all this is:
So let’s talk about one mistake that you may be making that’s pushing men away and how to stop doing it for good! You know what I’m talking about. The ‘thing’ that just repels good men and but it’s hiding somewhere behind the couch and you can’t figure out what it is. Well that thing is alive and living and you need to find out what it is before you can move on without it.
So does this apply to you?
Are you a YES girl?
Do you always try really hard to please your man and agree to everything he says even if you don’t agree? And if he seems to back away from you then that just makes you try to please him even more? Have you been brought up by your family to ‘take care’ of men?
A lot of woman have. And even if they weren’t brought up that way they still watch it daily on TV or read about it in books. Those sitcoms with the fat husband and the attentive wife that takes his crap is –well crap!
My husband always says that if he wanted a woman to say yes to him all the time and do everything he wanted he would have married the girl his mom picked out for him. But he didn’t because not only would that be boring – it would be annoying and pointless.
I find most men are like that. They want the woman who will stand up to them.
Have you ever noticed that a man who is with women who takes care of their every need seems to be bored or grumpy all the time? Look around and you’ll see it. In fact, a lot of these are the men that cheat on their wives because they are looking for more adventure. Something different.
They are also the bad men. The men you don't want in your life.
If a man is walking all over you it’s time to say ‘NO’. No more , that’s it, I’m finished. No more disappearing for days with no good excuse, no more leaving me at home while you go out for hours, no more making me do all the housework + cook + work.
No more doing only what you want to do the way you want to do it.
You need to show him that you respect yourself to much to receive this kind of treatment from anyone no matter how upset you think he’ll get. Chances are he’ll admire your stand and not be upset anywase.
Don’t do this just by telling him what you want...make sure you carry it out with actions.
If he never takes you out with him then stop accepting those moments that he determines you may spend time together. No need to make a big scene or create drama - simply say something like, 'Gee, I'd love to, but I have other plans. Next time why don't you let me know in advance and then we can figure out something that works for us both?'
Remember that YOU come first - always, always, always and you do not need to be giving any more to any guy or any relationship if it doesn't suite you to do so.
The truth will always resonate inside of you so if you feel like you are being the 'yes girl' or you are putting too much into the relationship with nothing in return than you probably are. Take a step back and take care of yourself first. Then you can pay some attention to him. Period.
6 Questions You Should Ask A Girl On The First Date
So you’ve done it! You have finalized the details
for the first date and now you are sweating and
anticipating how it will go. There may be a lot of
periods full of awkward silence that will have her
wondering if you are really that into her. But guess
what? If you ask a few key questions about her and
her life she will get the hint that you like her and the
date will move along smoothly and give you some
insight into her life.
1. What’s her favourite movie? Most girls will attach feelings to a move they like so a favourite movie will have positive feelings that will make her happy and in turn make the date go better.
2. What’s her favourite music? Chances are that you will be able to have a long conversation over this point alone. You probably will have some favourite songs or genres and having the same interests is always good.
3. What’s her outlook on life? This question is more for you but it’s a really good question to ask. It will give you insight into whether she’s a positive or negative person and how she goes about handling situations. Plus a lot of girls like it when you can talk a little deeper than about the latest reality show.
4. What are her future plans for life? Every girl likes to talk about herself and there’s nothing closer to the topic than this question. It allows her to tell you what she’s passionate about and what she believes in.
5. Do you have any talents? This is for the same reasoning as the above question. It lets her show off what she’s good at and she’ll think you’re that much more interested because you’ve seen her talent. Most girls will not let you know off the bat they can play guitar or sign like Madonna. They want you to find out for yourself.
6. What’s her favourite food? The reason this is good is because a lot of girls don’t want to eat too much on a first date. They feel self conscious about what they are eating and what you are thinking. If you bring up the food question and then mention that you love it when a girl can eat in front of you she may drop her guard about it and lose the insecurity which you helped do. Now you’re looking really good.
When you ask these questions you’re not only keeping the conversation rolling along but you are learning valuable information about each other that will help you know if you are interested as well as get to the next date.
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