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How To Meet Women Through Friends

/ November 15, 2011 / Attract Women /0 Comments

Have You Still Been Trying To Meet Women Through The Bar Scene?


Meet Women - How to Become an Alpha MaleDo you find it hard to meet women that match your needs, requirements, and wants in YOUR perfect woman?

If you are like most men then you usually meet women at bars and parties. This can become a regular hangout for picking up women for you and your friends.

The problem with bars is that the women there are expecting to get hit on by not just you, but a lot of different guys. They may pay attention to you for a while but after a few drinks you might catch them on the dance floor in between a few other guys. These girls are mostly looking for fun and excitement and are not necessarily there to met the guy of their dreams.

So don’t get upset when she is not giving you her real number at the end of the night. It’s probably not you but instead it was never her intention to find someone at the bar.

If you find that you are not having success with these women then you may want to consider other avenues to meet women that actually want to meet you! And fortunately the bar is not the only place you that women frequent.

When you start to look elsewhere you know that you are becoming more serious about meeting a woman for a real relationship. And even though it may feel a little weird to not be able to hide behind the drinks, music, and darkness – it may be time to turn the lights on and see what you are really dealing with.

There are many women who are not at these bars but are instead are frequenting other places of life that you probably already frequent. I’m talking about gorgeous and smart women who have also had enough of the bar scene and are looking for someone without their beer goggles on.

So where can you meet women that you can’t seem to find?

One place they may be hanging out, that you may not have thought to look at, is around your network of friends (outside of the regular bar guys). This is a great resource to turn to!

I’m talking about guys at work, social events, and even friends of friends that you talk to every now and again. If you think about your network of people you know then you can imagine how many girl friends each of those individuals have as a network – and so on and so forth. There are endless amounts of women in this vast social network.

All you have to do is start being social and expand your social network – and start hanging out with them when you can. You will make more friends this way (which is a good thing anywase) and you will add onto the guys who can help you meet women right for you!

The advantages to meeting women through your network of friends are:

  • Your friend can introduce you to the women without you having to approach her!
  • Your friend can talk you up and make you look like a great package!
  • If you run out of things to talk about you will always have a common place to go to (your friend).
  • Your first few encounters will be with that friend so awkwardness will be thrown out the window !
  • You don`t have to stress about the phone number because chances are you will see them again!
  • You get to see her interact with other people in a normal way and figure out who she really is – (No more having to go on a few high pressure dates to figure out whether you like her or not!)

How to get your friends to help you out

First let your entire friend network know that you are on the market and looking to meet women. Almost everyone will be willing to try and bring someone along on your next outing that may be a good match for you.

Make sure you make it clear you don`t want to be set-up on dates, but instead you just want to hang out and meet women that are available.

Also mention to your friends that you don`t really want to be advertised as ‘the friend who is looking to meet women’. This way you avoid the pressure of trying to impress any single females that come along, because you are just hanging out in their eyes instead of trying to meet a woman.

After that it’s up to you to pick a woman who meets your needs and who you will be compatible with.

If you find that your ‘picker’ tends to pick women who are not good for you, and you would rather find a woman for a serious relationship, then you may want to let your friends give you some hints on which women are suited for you and which one’s may break your heart.

 

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What To Say on a First Date in Order To Get a Second Date

/ November 15, 2011 / Attract Women /0 Comments

Or Rather – 3 Things To AVOID Saying on a First Date With a Woman


How to Become an Alpha MaleYour first date with a girl should be viewed more as a really long first impression with a girl! She will not just be enjoying your company on the date you know! She’ll also be trying to figure out if you are a guy that she will want to go on another date with, and eventually have in her life as a boyfriend.

Most women will not just judge you on a few mistakes and count you out of the running, but it’s better to say all the right things and do all the right things instead of say and do all the wrong things!

Learning to avoid saying the following things will help you make your first date successfully transition into a second date.

1. I’m Always Dating

Do you think she will desire you more if she’s knows that you are always out with girls? If you do you are probably wrong. Most girls don’t want to know that they guy that they are on a date with ‘dates around’ because they related to a guy who ‘sleeps around’, and that’s not a guy they will want!

Here’s what she will hear when you say it:

1. I’m a player who will end up hurting you.
2. I’m a loser who can’t keep a relationship going.
3. I’m so picky that I can’t find a girl to go on a second date with.

Either of those is not going to pain you in a good light and earn you a second date.

2. I Don’t Like…

Women are in search for the guy that is going to lift them up when they are down and help them see the positive. They are not in search for a guy who hates everything and everyone and brings them down with their negativity.

If you are a negative guy then you may want to rethink your outlook on life. Negativity is one of the most unattractive traits a guy can have. Even though most conversations are started with a negative tone like “Can you believe how stupid…” or “I can’t stand it when…” this doesn’t mean that it’s the ONLY way to start a conversation!

Keep your tone positive and your date will appreciate and like you more.

3. You’re Wrong

You don’t even have to SAY this to offend her; you can just show her through your actions. After all, actions do speak louder than words right?

You are allowed to have different viewpoints on things but if you tell her that the way she feels, believes, or reacts is wrong then you are telling her that she is not acceptable to you and that you know better.

What a turn-off to woman!

If you expect a second date after telling her that she is wrong then you are expecting too much. Women feel the way they feel and you can’t deny her feelings or beliefs about things and still be supportive man, and women are looking for a supportive man.

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Want a Woman in Your Life?

/ November 14, 2011 / Attract Women /0 Comments

Want a Woman Without Having a Relationship?

Why do you want a woman in your life?
Why do you want a woman in your life?

You don’t have to want a relationship. It’s not a required part of life if you don’t want it. Some guys just like to have sex with women, without a relationship. Some guys want to explore their fantasies and fetishes without having to have a relationship.

There are many reasons that you might just want to hook up with a woman instead of date a woman – and that’s fine.

BUT it’s unfair of guys, who just want sex, to pick up women who are actually looking for a relationship. You end up hurting her for your own selfish gains, and you may end up with a woman who tries to make your life hell after you treat her like crap. Why not just stick with a woman who wants the same thing you do?

And where do you find a woman like that? Either in your community at an adult club or online on an adult website.

You would be surprised at how many adult clubs there are in this world – and how many people go to them! And there are tons of people online on adult dating websites, in your area, who are looking for sexual relationships and encounters.

Check out Pleasure Her Tonight’s list of Adult Dating Websites…These are some of the most popular online adult dating websites that are guaranteed to help you find someone to hook up with.

The biggest reason why these adult dating sites are so great for guys who just want sex or a fling is because the women wants the same thing too.

There are plenty of woman on these sites, that’s for sure. And any fetish or fantasy you have will probably be fulfilled by someone on these sites.

Want a Woman For a Relationship

Whether you are looking to find love or just find a date – it all starts the same way.

First you have to take action and get looking for that woman! You can’t just do the same things day in and day out and hope that a woman will fall in your lap. You have to get out and look for that woman at the places you think she will be.

Second you have to figure out where a woman who meets your needs, wants, and desires will be.

Do you want an independent woman who will live her own life as well as be great in a relationship – without the constant needs that some women have? Then you will want to look in a place where independent women hang out. Some places include:

  • Work – Look for the women moving up the ladder quickly
  • Volunteering – This will give you a woman who thinks about others as well as herself. She does what she loves and lives her own life.
  • Gyms – A woman who has the drive to go to the gym everyday has a lot of drive in the rest of her life.
  • Conferences – A woman at a conference is trying to better herself and learn new things. This makes her an independent woman moving on a path that she wants to be on.
  • Online Dating Sites – Woman who are busy with their work-life will often use dating sites as a way to meet men. They want a relationship, but they don’t have time to waste looking for men at the bar or other pick up places. These women know what they are looking for and they will let you know what they are looking for and exactly who they are in their profile.

Maybe you want a woman who will take the traditional role of a wife. There are many women out there who want to fill that role – and want a man who will take the traditional role as a husband. You can find women like this everywhere!

The important thing that you need to do is to make sure that you find out if that’s the kind of life she wants before you date her. Women who want this type of life tend to already know that’s what she wants.

And lastly you have to have the right attitude to get a woman.

  • You have to be self-confident in your abilities to please her both in and out of bed. If you are confident in yourself then it will shine through your actions and words. Women don’t just listen to you – they can literally see your true colors in your movements and actions. So you better figure out what your body language is saying when you are around women – and make sure it’s screaming confidence!
  • You should be a positive guy who can make her feel good about herself and her decision to be with you. No woman wants a guy who is negative and going to make her feel bad all the time. Find your happiness and share it with a woman.
  • You should have goals in your life that you are working towards. This not only benefits you and your happiness right now, but it also affects the way woman will view you. Having goals in life is much more attractive then having a permanent butt mark on the couch.
  • You should be honest and forthright with your intentions. If you don’t want a relationship then head to those adult dating sites above. If you are not sure what you want then let her know. Give her an opportunity to decide whether you are the right guy for her. This will save both you and her a lot of pain and fights in the future.

 

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