Satisfy Her Out of Bed in Order For Her To Be Satisfied in Bed

If you can satisfy her outside of bed then you will have a much better time when you go for a romp in the hay. And if you get her motor running inside of the bedroom then she will feel better about your relationships as a whole outside of the bedroom.

Essentially, learning how to satisfy a woman outside of the bedroom is very important to your relationships success!

First of all, here are 5 ways to ensure that you will satisfy a woman’s needs. Do these things and you will have a much happier relationship! I promise!

If you want to learn more about these things and get a more detailed description then I suggest reading – What Women Want Men to Know by Barbara Deangelis. She lays it out in a ‘what not to do list’ and explains in great detail why you should avoid doing certain things when trying to satisfy your woman.

5 Ways to Satisfy a Woman

1. Don’t Shut Her Out

Don’t ignore your woman no matter what. No matter why you are giving her the silent treatment or how innocent it may seem to you it`s one of the worst possible things you can do to her.

She will head into a wide range of feelings including insecurity and anger and you will pay for it dearly. She may start to ‘nag’ or constantly question you because of her insecurity and you will most likely even pull father away from her which will in turn cause her more anguish.

Remember that women like to talk things out in order to feel better. There is no other way around it. So if you feel like you want to ignore her then stop yourself and tell her that you just want to be by yourself for a while instead of just closing up completely from her. She will appreciate that much more than the silent treatment.

2. ‘Really’ Listen To Her

No matter what she is talking about, even if she is laying out her day ahead to you, chances are she may say something that she feels is important for you to know.

Sitting there saying uh-huh is fine if you are actually listening, but if you are not hearing what she is saying then you are going to piss her off or make her upset from this easily fixed bad habit.

All you have to do is hear what she is saying, remember it, and get on with your life. You may be quizzed on it later on and if you listen then you will pass with honors. If you don’t listen then you will fail satisfying her in any way at all.

Remember that women can tell when you are paying attention and when you are just responding for the hell of it, so make sure you take the few seconds to really pay attention and avoid the hours of anger that comes from it when you don’t.

3. Have Eyes Only For Her

Checking out women if fine – when she’s not around. Even though some woman may find it a turn on to see you sexually attracted to other woman, most women will not.

Some women will get really angry and hold it against you for a long time. She may yell, cry, or lash out at you because of it.

But most women will let their insecurities come out when they see you checking out another woman. They will automatically wonder what that woman has that gets your interest and whether or not they can offer you that same quality.

The catch is that the quality she see’s in the woman won’t be something that she has. It will be the perky boobs that she can`t magically get, or the tiny waist that has long ago left her body, or the long legs that are double her legs length.

The fact that she can’t get that quality will have her feeling bad about herself and your view of her and she can start to obsess about it to the point of doing stupid things like starving herself or getting plastic surgery done.

Yes, this can all stem from you making it really obvious that another woman gets your attention more than she can, so make sure you hug her, kiss her, and check HER out in public. She will feel good about you when you do this.

4. Say What You Mean Clearly

One thing all women want is a concrete answer or solution. They do not want to hear humming and hawing when you are talking to them about something.

For example, if your woman asks you if you are going to fix the bathroom pipe in your bedroom bathroom then don’t answer by saying “Yeah that pipe was something I was thinking about…” as that will just make her feel like you are not listening to what she is asking, or that you are unsure about what you are supposed to do and which pipe you are supposed to fix.

Instead answer “Yes. I was going to head up to our bedroom bathroom and check the pipe out right after I finish watching this movie.” This will satisfy her by letting her know that you understand what she is asking and that you have a plan. You will avoid any pissed off questions or harassing that follows a more vague answer.

This rule applies to everything she asks you and to everything you try to tell her. Make sure you are clear about it.

5. Comfort Her

If she is upset, angry, or any other negative emotion then try to comfort her. Do not let her walk around feeling bad about herself or the situation without at least trying to make her feel better.

She may not accept your comfort (chances are she will), but she will appreciate your effort. You will satisfy her need of being heard and cared for and this will mean a lot to her when she calms down and feels better.