If you’re wondering how to tell if a guy loves you, you’re in luck. It’s really not that hard. Although most guys may have trouble communicating their emotions and feelings verbally, there are plenty of telltale non-verbal signs he loves you that are easy to identify and spot.
Guys are notoriously shy about announcing their love out loud. If you’re planning to wait until he whispers those three little words in your ear, you might have to wait a lot longer than if you would just look out for other signs he loves you.
When a guy loves you, it’s just as hard for him to keep it under wraps as it is for him to say it out loud. Here’s how to know if he loves you.
• He prefers hanging out with you to chilling with his friends
• He bends over backward for you
• He stops noticing other women so much
• He hangs on every word you say
• He doesn’t mind doing things for you
• He is still affectionate even when he’s not after sex
1. He Prefers Hanging out with You to Chilling with His Friends
Just like spending time with your BFF is one of the most important parts of your life, men put a lot of importance on finding quality time to spend with their friends. It is almost irresistible to a guy when the call comes in to inform him that the guys are shooting pool at the bar, catching the game at Eddie’s, or watching Bruce Willis kick the daylights out of the baddies.
If your guy consistently foregoes opportunities for guy time in order to spend more time hanging out with you, your ‘he loves me’ radar should probably start tingling.
2. He Bends Over Backward for You
While most women are wired with a selfless, motherly instinct to help other people, the vast majority of guys are a lot less willing to do things for others unless they get something back in return. If your man begins to take the initiative to go way out of his way to do things for you, all he may be hoping for in return could be your love.
These could be things like driving you where you need to go even when it’s out of his way, bringing you lunch on your lunch break even if it means missing his, or even something as simple as giving you his coat when it’s freezing outside.
3. He Stops Noticing Other Women so Much
The more you begin to fill up your man’s senses, the less he will notice the other attractive potential mates on the scene. If you man is always checking out the ladies that pass by out of the corner of his eye, you may need to start working a bit harder for his attention. But if a real knockout manages to make a complete pass in front of your man without him taking his eyes off you even once, love just might be in the air.
4. He Hangs on Every Word You Say
If there’s one thing most guys hate more than anything else it’s hearing about all the drama that goes on between you and your friends. If you can get away with going on for hours to him about who said what at work or who likes who among your friends, he may just more than like you.
5. He Doesn’t Mind Doing Things for You
Another way how to tell if a guy loves you is to test him by asking him to do something for you that he wouldn’t normally want to do. Don’t ask for money, as most guys are willing to throw money at just about any woman. Instead, ask for help washing your car or for his company while you visit your sick grandma.
6. He’s Still Affectionate Even When He’s Not after Sex
When a guy begins to develop stronger feelings for you, he will find himself unable to stop touching you, hugging you, and kissing you even when sex is not on his mind. When his levels of affectionate touching begin to shoot through the roof, his feelings for you might be skyrocketing as well.
David is the founder of RomanticLoveTips.com, a leading online resource for love tips, romantic ideas, and dating advice for men and women who want better, sexier, more fun, more connected, and more passionate relationships.
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