10 Ways To Use Dirty Talk Outside of The Bedroom

Dirty talk should be part of everybody’s relationship! It is the one thing that can really get you excited for the bedroom without actually being in the bedroom! Dirty talk is not about being nasty and vulgar (unless you enjoy that) but rather it’s about turning each other on with your words in your own personal view of what’s sexy.

Taking your dirty talk from the bedroom to public is one way to spice it up even more! The thrill of turning each other on when you can’t do anything about it will have you counting down the minutes until you CAN do something about it!

Here are 10 ways you can use dirty talk outside of the bedroom today!

1. Texting Dirty

When we text we don’t sound like ourselves, and when you add dirty talk to the texting you can be sure to feel like your lover is an exciting new person which will give you butterfly’s in your stomach all over again – and put a huge smile on your face. You can do this when you are apart or even when you are sitting across the table from each other. Both are equally sexy.

2. Making Code Words That Only You Two Know

This is when you get to talk about what you want to do, or are going to do to each other when you get home without anyone else knowing that you are talking about something dirty. For example, watching a movie means having sex or doing push-ups means having sex doggy style. There are so many different ways you can code your dirty talk, and it’s fun every time you do it.

3. Whispering Your Dirty Talk

Whispering into your lover’s ear is sexy whether it’s dirty talk or not! Add dirty talk into the picture and you have one hot partner on your hands. Randomly whisper something sexy to your partner when they least expect it and you will have their motor running in no time.

4. Write a Dirty Story For Your Lover

Write about something that will turn your partner on and don’t hold back. Write about something you have never done before to get their imagination going, or write a story that you would like to act out that same night.

5. Skype Dirty Talk

Sexy! You can see each other but you can’t touch each other. That’s hot! All you have is your words and your body with Skype so let loose and make it really sexy. The hotter you talk the hotter you will feel.

6. Dirty Talk Notes

If your partner has to work during the day then write a dirty note and leave it in their jacket or pants pocket or lunch bag. When they find it they will get a pleasant surprise and excitement that they didn’t expect.

7. Make a Video For Your Lover

Record a video of you doing something dirty and talking to the camera. You can use your webcam and send it to their e-mail or use a video camera and upload it. Either way make sure you mark the subject line “Watch in private” so that their friends are not standing around when they open the e-mail.

8. Use Non-Verbal Dirty Talk

You don’t always have to say the words to convey the message. If you think about your lover in a sexual way then you will look at your partner in a sexual way – and they will get the message quickly. Look them up and down, give them a sexually teasing smile, and let them know you are thinking about more then there clothes.

9. Take a Dirty Picture For Them

This may not be directly using dirty talk outside of the bedroom, but it will allow them to see you and use their own imagination when it comes to getting down and dirty. That one picture can spark hours of enjoyment.

10. Point Out Accessories For The Bedroom

When you are shopping with your lover point out various things that would be fun in the bedroom instead of just shopping for everyday life things like you normally do. The cucumber at the grocery store, the cute lingerie that you pass by, the oils that are good for many things, and even the rope in the hardware store that is multi-purposeful. Pretty much everything can be used in the bedroom in some way and talking about it will get you both excited to experiment.

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