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/ November 15, 2011 / Please Your Woman In Bed /0 Comments

Here’s The Number One Reason Your Woman Can’t Help You Please Her in Bed!


Please a Woman - Become an Alpha MaleHow to please a woman orally, sexually, and even mentally can be a mystery to some men but I’m here to take away the mystery and offer you a chance to be one of the rare guys who know what they are actually doing to a woman in bed and whether or not what they are doing is actually working.

First of all you should know that many women do not know how to pleasure themselves, and the percentage of women who have had an orgasm is actually quite shockingly low.

So if a woman has not learned how to pleasure herself and has never experienced an orgasm then she is not going to be able to help you out in the bedroom as far as pleasing her goes.

This means that you have to learn how to satisfy a woman without her help.

The good news is that if you can figure it all out then you become the guy who first gave her that pleasure and taught her about her body, and that makes you something special that she will always be thankful for.

If there’s one thing that you should know about women and their ability to reach an orgasm, it’s that they need all their senses stimulated to do so.

Women need to ‘be in the mood’ which means their brain needs to be thinking about sex first for their their body to follow. If there brain is thinking about the days problems or tomorrow’s tasks then they are never going to reach an orgasm and most likely will not be in the mood even if they are participating in the act.

Did you know that a woman can be at the brink of orgasm but if she is distracted by another thought she will automatically drop off the orgasm cliff and have to start the whole build up process again? It’s not fair but it’s true. This is why keeping her mind engaged is so important.

So start by touching her lightly on the arm or neck while you are not even thinking about sex. This will engage her brain towards being turned on and starting to think about sex. Watching a sexy movie is a great way to get her in the mood because she will be forced to think about sex and start thinking about it with you.

My point is to build up the tension as you go and get her mind more and more focused on the bedroom and her body wanting more and more. Get rid of the other thoughts she has going on and keep her engaged in the thought of pleasure.

Watch her reaction the next time you want sex and just abruptly try to start it. Chances are she’s going to not be as hot as she would be if you were to build up to it.

Women also need a bigger connection during sex than guys do to keep them focused and engaged.

So keep eye contact up, talk to her, whisper in her ear, touch her all over, and let her know that you are in bed with her for more than just her vagina and breasts. She’ll love it and have a better chance of orgasm.

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How To Turn Her On

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Turn Her on Faster By Turning On Her Mind

By Gabrielle Moore

Gabrielle Moore is the author of Turn Her On Faster. Learn more by clicking here.

Turning on a woman emotionally is almost equivalent to turning you on physically. If a woman is in the right state of mind she can have much more enjoyable foreplay and, hence, equally terrific sex.

While arousing her body may seem like an easier, straightforward task (read more in the next chapter), stimulating her mind takes patience and creativity (and a little bit of corniness). Let’s call it sensuous mindplay.

Eye contact

Don’t forget: an unexpected “look” can build the anticipation for later. That wink is a boyish, coy way to captivate her. So can capturing her stare and giving her a genuine smile, stealing a look while she’s doing a chore or some other mundane task that wouldn’t usually warrant a sneak peek, or holding her gaze for longer than a split-second.

The lost art of kissing

What happened to kissing? Does it die out after you hear the minister say, “You may kiss your bride”? I have listened to so many of my married friends say, “I miss making out.” We yearn for no-strings-attached fooling around where we can make out without the immediate expectation of sex. There’s something thrilling about going at it like school kids on the couch or in the car (or, better yet, in a secret public place).

A few tips for reviving your kissing techniques and bringing the fun back to old-school make-out sessions:

1- Kiss her and let your tongue touch the very edge of her lips. The soft sensations will drive her absolutely wild.

2- Use your lips to “nibble” her bottom lip or, if you’re verrrry careful, you can even use your teeth for a gentle bite. Just proceed with caution.

3- Kiss her with an open mouth and then pull away ever so slightly, allowing your tongues to continue dancing. Guys seem to really like this form of kissing.

For more tips on how to kiss her into bed and how to use your lips to make her beg you for wild sex, click here.

Intimate talk

After years of marriage, talking openly and freely about your sexual needs can be an incredibly daunting exercise, especially if you’ve never done it. But if you want your wife to don a French maid outfit or get a little forceful with a leather whip, she’s never going to do it unless you just ask her. The same goes for her.

In other words, one discussion about innermost desires can snowball and affect your general outlook on your entire relationship!

Learn more about intimate talk and the bit “dont’s” that you must avoid if you want to get her into bed click here.

Dirty talk

The art of dirty talk is different from the aforementioned intimate talk – dirty talk is, well, more risqué.

A common misconception is that dirty talk has to be raunchy and vulgar, but it can take on a wide range of forms. It’s really about the type of couple you are and the terminology that will get you the best reaction (you don’t want to insult her if she’s embarrassed about you using the word p*ssy or c*ck).

This article is a brief extract from my hot “Turn Her On Faster” e-course. To learn more about the full illustrated and audio versions of Turn Her On Faster click here.

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